Sermon – March 11, 2018: “Marriage & Divorce”

Luke 16:18

Parallel Accounts

Mark 10:11-12 and Matthew 5:32 & 19:9

Context

  • Jesus has just finished reinforcing the idea that the law is everlasting, and taking this account alongside of Matthew 5:17, he shows that he did not come to abolish the law.

Luke’s reason for recording

  • Luke takes the opportunity to show how Jesus actually upheld the law where the Pharisees failed to do so.

The Seventh Commandment

  • “You shall not commit adultery.”
  • Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their spouse.
  • Jesus: divorce + remarriage = adultery.

Why divorce + remarriage = adultery

  • The Law says sexual intercourse IS marriage. (Exodus 22:16 and Deuteronomy 22:28)
  • Therefore, according to definition, sexual intercourse with anyone else is adultery.

Why the confusion?

  • The Pharisees mistook Moses’ allowance (Deuteronomy 24:1-4) for command.
  • Jesus reveals (Matthew 19) that God never intended for there to be divorce.
  • God hates divorce (Malachi 2:13-16).
  • The marriage covenant mirrors God’s covenant with his people.

Parallels between covenants

  • Both require devotion to one.
  • Both require striving to become one.
  • Both give something that can be found nowhere else.

However…

  • Divorce (and sexual immorality) show a disregard for covenant.
  • Disregard for marriage makes it easier to disregard covenant with God.

The importance of covenant

  • Covenant is the backbone of the biblical story.
  • Covenant provides security from the selfishness of man.
  • It reveals what is to be received for what is given.
  • Once security is found in knowing what will be received one can concentrate on what needs to be given.

Can a Christian divorce?

  • Opinion: No, a Christian should not divorce, but should constantly strive to do their part in the marriage covenant.
  • But Jesus says divorce is permissible if there is sexual immorality.
  • Are we playing the same game as the Pharisees?
  • Look at the rest of scripture.
  • If the marriage covenant mirrors God’s covenant, then we should pay attention to the example of Hosea.
  • When their marriage is in trouble a Christian should do everything they can to remain married, but if a spouse ultimately leaves there is little that can be done (1 Corinthians 7:15).

Transformation Expectation

  • We need to get back to seeing things the way God designed them.
  • Sexual intercourse IS marriage.
  • Marriage is supposed to be an example of God’s love for his people.
  • Therefore, we should strive to make our marriages just that.

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